NO JUDGEMENT ZONE!

  So being sum 1 who spends a lot of time on  gossip sites and watching reality shows of celebs, I cant help but to notice that sex industry has been making a really big buzz lately. Even with the modeling industry, more and more over the top sexual images are becoming way more excepted. At first the thought of it used to really bother me because when it comes to anything sexual I believe that it's something that should be kept sacred between you and your partner. As a woman I take great pride in the fact that my significant other is THE ONLY PERSON ON THIS EARTH THAT HAS A CONNECTION WITH  ME ON A SEXUAL LEVEL. And as a man I know that's something that he treasures as well. It's like that look and smirk that a dude gives another guy that may be staring at his girl like, " Yeeeaa nigga, thats all me right there and NO body elses". I will even admit that I myself would look down on people that where too sexually explicit or "out there" when it came to sex. Then you have all this coverage lately on Montana Fishburne, the daughter of Laurence Fishburne, and how she has made the decision to be in the porn industry. Now my personal opinion of her decision is split about 30/70... 30% of me feels bad for her just because of the fact that she is carrying on a very prestigious name. None of us really know what her home situation is but I would like to think that her dad paved a way for her in which she didn't have to go this route. But then it's that 70% of me that says " F**k It!! She's grown and old enough to know what she is doing!" At the end of the day somebody has to do it. It just sort of sucks when you may know that person or know that they could have so much potential in something a little more dignifying. I remember when I first found out that one of my classmates was in the porn industry. I just had that thought that if that's what she wants to do then so be it but it is a bit unfortunate knowing she didnt have to take that path to become successful. Then again that just goes to show that you never know a person or their situation so for us to judge anyone isn't right. But then I happened to watch an interview with Montana that opened my mind a little bit more & even changed my view on judging these overly sexual beings. She made the comment that she doesn't understand why people are coming down on her and judging when these are the same people that will watch porn.... It was at that moment when I realized A) she wasn't as dumb as a thought and B) she just made the best point that doesn't just apply to sex and porn but to ANYTHING IN LIFE!
         HOW DARE WE BE SO JUDGMENTAL ABOUT WHAT SOMEONE ELSE IS DOING AS IF WE ARE LIVING OUR LIFE PERFECT.

  At the end of the day you can only be responsible for your actions and what might be one's interest doesn't have to be yours! Montana Fishburne's choice to be in the sex industry was her own choice because that's what she feels she is good at. Regardless of the moral stand point. Now i'm not saying that I personally would show my temple to millions of people & have sex with multiple people on or off a camera cuz i wouldnt. But when it's all said and done TO EACH IT'S OWN. If anything I honestly can say I respect a porn star, stripper, video vixen, etc. a little bit more than just a regular person who wants to hoe around for free! (Lol) We should no longer look down on people that choose a different path then what the next person might have taken. So next time you catch yourself talking about who slept with who and how many times, or who is doing what and how... take a look in the mirror.


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HELLO WORLD!

  Whats up blog world! This is my first blog EVER so I wanted to break this thing in by rightfully introducing myself & letting people read & understand who the real CeCe is. I'm actually quite excited about this for whatever reason. maybe its cuz lately all the things that I've had a desire to do I have just been going for it. Hell! even w/ this blog I just woke up this morning and said, " I think i wanna start blogging." Then what do you know, a few hours later I'm setting up my account. I know that now my page is a little bit boring and may lack a bit of personality compared to some but I'm learning so it'll all get better with time, Leona Lewis style:-)... But anyway, I wanted my first post to be an insight on me, my personality, and my mindset because at the end off the day I know that there are many that dont know or understand the real me. Part of that is because I have allowed it to be that way. But there is always a reasoning behind the way I think or feel about life, family, friends, society, etc. I just hope that through my blogs, people will have an understanding heart. So without farther ado, I would like to introduce CORRIE SMITH:

  Im just a soul who's intentions are good. OH LORD! PLEASE? Dont let me be misunderstood... Cliche` right? LOL!!! On a serious note though, I am Corrie Carme Smith. I am a loving wife who is on a journey to find my place in this world. I have enough passion for the things and people I love to fill up this world three times. Some see that as a flaw but hey this is just who I am. Just like many other people, I've dealt with some harsh trials and tribulations, but not like some people, I dont let those situations define who I am or have I ever let those situations be the reason I chose to do bad in life. I always thank my HEAVENLY FATHER for keeping me close and keeping certain people in my life so that I never had to choose to go down a negative path. At first when I was younger maybe around the age of 15 or 16, I honestly thought that I had my life planned out but now at the age of 21 looking back I realized that I only had my life planned out according to what OTHERS said was right. It wasnt until a big confrontation with family, a very very brief time in college, and time living out on my own, did I realize that I hadn't been 100% real with myself and some of the people around me. So, what is the real me? The real me is living free spirited  w/o anyones rules or opinion to say what i am doing is right or wrong.  The real me is finding the TRUTH out about people and this world before I dive into doing something just because thats what "society" says is right. I think what people may not know or understand about me at times is that I'm not your average traditional person. And like I said before there is a reason behind this (thats a whole nother blog by itself).Another thing is people and the titles they hold in my life... When it comes down to it I dont hold ANYBODY to a different standard whether it be family, friend, or stranger on the street. To a lot of people that may sound cold hearted but the way I see it and experienced  it, the reality of it is that you can have friends or family that can treat you just as dirty (if not worst) than a stranger on the street. I refuse to have unneccessary drama, catty-ness, or snakes in my life,i dont care if its friend, family, or stranger or the street. This also brings me to my new motto "No Gray Area"... I ABSOLUTELY DESPISE GRAY AREA PEOPLE. That are people that are in your face telling you one thing but then running to other people ( or your enemy) saying another. Or basically people that play both sides of the fence.To be completely honest at times I wish I could go to another country, not tell anybody but a few people where I am and wat my intentions are and just live and learn the way I want to. Most of my life i was always extroverted, had many friends, outgoing, always known as the silly, goofy one to look to if you wanted to have fun and although I was always surrounded with people I still felt as if I was lonely, or even in many cases preferred to be left alone. Still to this day that is something that I dont even i understand about myself, but I guess thats part of the learning process about myself I still have yet to conquer. 

  Anyway I didn't intend for this first blog to be too long. I think I gave a good enough insight on me. Just look forward to this blog to be my thoughts & opinions on everyday life, the world, and even entertainment. Cuz that is one thing I will say I take a passionate liking to (music, celebs, etc.) So thanking you for choosing to hop on this interesting ride to share myself with the world... And you never know you may get a chance to see me in some very rare forms. XOXOXO~